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I GOT FLOWERS TODAY
Dedicated to all battered women.
by Paulette Kelly
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I got flowers today!
It wasn't my birthday or any other special day;
We had our first argument last night; And he said a lot of cruel things that really hurt;
I know that he is sorry and didn't mean to say the things he said;
Because he sent me flowers today.
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I got flowers today!
It wasn't our anniversary or any other special day;
Last night he threw me into a wall and then started choking me;
It seemed like a nightmare, but you wake up from nightmares to find they aren't real.
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I got flowers today!
And it wasn't Valentine's Day or any other special day;
Last night he beat me and threatened to kill me;
Make-up and long-sleeves didn't hide the cuts and bruises this time;
I couldn't go to work today because I didn't want anyone to know-but I know he's sorry;
Because he sent me flowers today.
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I got flowers today!
And it wasn't Mother's Day or any other special day;
Last night he beat me again, and it was much worse than all of the other times;
If I leave him, what will I do? How will I take care of the kids? What about money?
I'm afraid of him, but I'm too scared and dependent to leave him! But he must be sorry;
Because he sent me flowers today.
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I got flowers today...Today was a very special day---it was the day of my funeral;
Last night he finally killed me---I was beaten to death;
If only I would have gathered the courage and strength to leave him;
The women's shelter could have helped me, but I didn't ask for their help;
So I got flowers today...for the last time.
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Copyright 1992 c by Paulette Kelly
Special thanks to the El Paso Shelter for Battered Women for providing this poem.
Please call the Women's Shelter Program of San Luis Obispo County at (805) 781-6400 or 1-800-549-8989 for HOTLINE.
If you are not in San Luis Obispo County, please call your nearest women's shelter or 1-800-799-SAFE.
If you are in immediate danger, call "911" or your local police department.
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